Friday, 2 December 2011

Unimportant you

        
          Some people around us are important to us, valuable in a way. All those important characters, who's name we could never forget. But as for the rest, oops we're not sorry. What do we do when we see a familiar face around the corner who's name, despite all the brain racking we just can't recall ?Is it really a question of self esteem whether we remember their name ? unleashing thoughts for a moment, the answer presents itself in our mind. Yes. We have a basic instinct to hide the fact that we don't remember their name, a simple solution is to just smile magnificently at that person as if we could write their biography for them. In a moment, we realize that we have fooled yet another and without effort. Despite the fact that the person facing us might be facing the same problem, why do we find it hard to accept that we are selective.
         One day during a walk tracing our life steps, we shall recall faces, the ones that smiled at us, opened us a door into friendship, or love. Those good few who offered us a helping hand in the past, faded into past. Our mind choose to forget them in a bliss of a few years. It is the choice of nature. Changes are inevitable, even if we try to resist it. What we can do, is but today, to be sincere in who we are. Call it whatever, relationships are the most precious in this world, more valuable than money or gold. Whom would you spent a few moments with, if you it were your last ? Whom do you think of when you lie awake at night ? Whom do you think of when you want to share a loot of happiness with ? They are whom you should carry in your heart. And above what the wolrd sees, it is what they see and what you see that matters. Life is short and sweet if you see it right, but what makes it that way are moments spent  with loved ones. 
         Every character of a human mind be it good or bad, has a positive dimension in it. Sacrifices are what true relationships are built on, and to see it as it truly is, takes a beautiful mind. They say that the power of a relationship lies in whomever cares less. Magically in relationships where minds are as open as books, there is no power, but care, for each other. And despite all the unimportance you give yourself, you still get the importance that you deserve.